I’m dreaming. At 32 weeks, mostly I’m dreaming of not being pregnant. And of what I’ll wear when I’m no longer pregnant and have my body mostly to myself again. Here are some things I’m dreaming of for fall 2012…
The Aster bag by LuckyCann. I want, I want, I want…
Chino’s from Land’s End in a fun color. I have NEVER ever EVER liked chinos. In fact, show me a khaki pant and I will usually show you my “Ick, Mom Pants!” face. But the gals at ANMJ just might have convinced me.
The Ryan pocket tee from Everlane. Looks perfectly drapey, perfectly comfortable, perfectly nurseable (just add a nursing tank underneath).
A killer bootie to wear with everything, like these by Clark’s Indigo…
A stylish go-to jacket… like Splendid’s Moto Pea Coat.
A polka dot top, like this one from JCrew.
Of course, it’s likely that some of this would not actually fit my soon (but not soon enough!)-to-be postpartum body, nor will I actually have time to shop for such things, much less look in the mirror, once Tiny T is born. But hey, a girl can dream.
Well, “school.” “School” = Kids Day Out two mornings a week. At 21 months, Little B is such a curious, sociable, talkative, affectionate kid; we think she’s going to love playing with friends, singing songs, and doing art projects a few hours a week. And, true to her nature, she practically ran to the door yelling “school!” “play!”, and didn’t look back or give us a second thought. She was completely uninterested in a goodbye hug for Mama and Papa.
…purple polka dot dress from BabyGap Outlet with comfy Stride Rite Mary Jane sneakers.
What She (we) Carried…
…beloved frog backpack (bought on clearance at Gap Outlet), and her new PlanetBox Rover Lunch box, a bento-style kit which I think I’m in love with.
…black olives, dried peas, cheese cubes, rice crackers, goji berries, strawberries and kiwis, a dried fig, seaweed snacks, and a homemade gluten-free Almond Flour Snickerdoodle. Don’t you love how tidy this lunch box makes everything look? So appetizing. I wish someone would make me a lunch like this every day.
She’s such a fun girl.
Recently I found myself standing in front of my closet, unable to get dressed, actually uttering the clichéd words “I have nothing to wear.” False. I definitely have something to wear. Many things to wear. My closet is full of clothes, my dresser drawers are bulging. “I have nothing to wear” is simply a cop out. What I meant is “I don’t feel inspired by my wardrobe.” Uninspired and too lazy to sort through it and find some new direction.
Designer and environmentalist Lanni Lantto believes the idea of dressing beautifully to express yourself can be in harmony with the concept of decreasing your consumerism and environmental impact. Lanni started her line (re) with the goal of creating original, unique pieces of fashion from pre-existing materials. She says “By using pre-existing materials and creatively salvaged fabrics, I breathe new life into fashion otherwise destined for the landfill. After all, the most eco-friendly fabrics are those that already exist.” This statement struck me because even in those moments where I truly feel like I can’t pull an outfit together, there are aspects of certain items that I really do love. I don’t always want to spend my money on new clothes but I can’t figure out how to make the clothes I own work for me.
Eco-consultation is one of the services offered by (re). Available to her clients all over the world via Skype, Lanni works as a personal stylist who can reimagine your wardrobe in an eco-friendly way. She uses three main categories to help decide which clothes need to be 1) donated/resold through consignment, 2) what will be kept, and 3) what can be redesigned.
When Lanni came over to help me with my closet situation, she spent the first few minutes talking with me about my lifestyle and aesthetic preferences. She was probably also getting a feel for how difficult it would be to get me to part with items that I didn’t need anymore. Was I going to be a free spirit ready to purge excess baggage? Or a borderline hoarder who ascribes sentimental value to each pair of underwear I own? Spoiler alert: I’m a natural at purging and have tendencies to over-sentimentalize things. So how did it go?
I think Lanni and I were both surprised at my willingness to let go of clothes that weren’t working for me anymore. I have a lot of clothes that I still love in theory but haven’t worn since the early 2000’s. I also have clothes that I don’t love but that I never got rid of simply because they were of good quality or had been expensive. I do try to do an annual assessment of my wardrobe to get rid of items that aren’t worn, but when doing this task on my own I always find excuses to keep more things than I need.
With Lanni guiding me, I was forced to be a bit more honest. She asked gentle but blunt questions about pieces that I wavered on. “When was the last time you wore this? When was the last time before that? Do you feel this flatters you? Do you have another piece that serves a similar purpose in your wardrobe that you like bettr?” In the end, I had three garbage bags worth of clothes to donate to charity. This was much more than I had ever been able to part with in one session before. Besides being accountable to Lanni about the reality of my wardrobe, I also felt more relaxed about donating things because I knew Lanni would be helping me re-work what I currently had in the closet.
There were two pieces in particular that I felt resisant to donating simply because they were expensive and hardly worn. A J.Crew bridesmaids dress and a long GAP peacoat were both set aside to be consigned, in hopes that a profit from those items would give me a little money to buy items that might fill in the gaps of my now smaller wardrobe.
When deciding what to get rid of, Lanni made me feel extremely comfortable about how much she was “letting” me keep by explaining that I could have different categories within my overall wardrobe. She advises clients to have a base wardrobe that is combined with a summer and winter wardrobe during the appropriate season. She also allowed me to have a pile for professional clothes and yoga/exercise clothes. I had no excuse to cling to things unnecessarily because the “rules” for keeping clothes were so reasonable.
When we were finished taking out the clothes that would be donated, Lanni helped me organize my closet so that when getting dressed I would be able to easily access the type of piece of I was looking for. Cardigans/cover-ups together, underlayers together, dresses together, etc. This seems so logical, but before that day my closet literally had no rhyme or reason.
The most exciting part of an eco-consulation with Lanni is the chance to get her help in reinventing pieces of your collection of clothes that you love too much to part with but don’t use as they are.
Lanni focused two dresses that I love, one for comfort and one for fanciness, but rarely wear. She took a shirt and a skirt from my ‘donate’ pile and showed me how some elements from those pieces could be combined with the dresses to create new looks.
A comfy gray jersey dress that I found a little too plain to wear regularly was transformed with the flowers from an old skirt into a funky, fun piece. My fussy, metallic dress (the time of strapless is over for me, I think) became more wearable and softer when the lace details from a long forgotten top were dyed to match and then used to create straps.
Under the “re-design” header Lanni also designates the subcategories of “self-mend” and “have tailored.” A beloved tunic with a tear and a favorite dress with loose straps were both easy fixes after Lanni gave me a basic tutorial on how to sew them myself. A comfortable sweater dress with a pattern that I adore was rarely worn because I found it a little too boxy. The look will be much more flattering after my tailor adds a few back darts.
The concept behind (re) and Lanni’s eco-consultation service combines the natural desire to express oneself through personal style with the responsibility we have to consider the way our lifestyle impacts our environment. This service can be provided to fashionistas all over the globe who already possess good taste and most of their wardrobe basics but need a fresh perspective to expand their options.
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–Lane from The Traveling Circus
Happy Labor Day! We spent the entire weekend at our house doing the 3-day Potty Training program, with great success; Little B is totally enthused about using the potty. But I did manage to work in some knitting in between Potty Dances, and I took the opportunity to finish up this adorable bunny hat for a sweet little boy who is yet to arrive. I hope he and his Mama love it. I know I do, and plan to knit up the pattern a few more times for the small crowd of new arrivals we have amongst our friends these days.
The pattern is from my much-loved (ok, well, I stole it from my mom) copy of Susan B. Anderson’s Itty Bitty Hats, and I knitted it in Sugar ‘n Cream self-striping cotton yarn. I have a great love for self-striping yarn.
Can’t wait to see this hat on the little guy. (I’m totally spoiling the surprise, but if your initials are P.D. this hat is coming your way!)
More hats to come….
And check back tomorrow for our first-ever completely Frilling blog giveaway!
Well, everyone. It’s that time of year again. It’s not ACTUALLY Fall (not even close) in Texas, but school has started, football has begun, the stores have all held their end of summer sales, and everyone is gearing up for the next season. So even though the weather isn’t really reflecting much change around these parts, I have succumbed to dreaming about my fall (fashion) wishlist.
I gathered my inspiration from some of my favorite fashion blogs. While I’m sure a lot of these items will change and evolve over the coming months, here’s what I’ve got my eyes on lately:
A lovely, bright clutch:
(via Brooklyn Blonde)
A delicate chambray:
(via Wendy’s Lookbook)
A pair of colorful, low, wide heels:
(via Eat Sleep Wear)
A fitted, khaki trench (maybe not so realistic for Texas Falls. Thoughts?):
A tunic-like throw (maybe more realistic for Texas Falls. I saw a beautiful one while in Portland a few weeks ago, and I didn’t snag it. I’m a little regretful.):
(via My Style Pill)
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